The second chance letter is being used with incredible success by people from all around the world. Relationships that were once thought to be lost have been rekindled and now stand on foundations stronger than ever before.
But why exactly does it work?
Well initially the goal of the letter is to tell your lost love that you are completely fine with the breakup, as this is one of the key elements to the letter. Even though you are not okay with the breakup and you are fighting to win them back, this tactic will actually allow an emotional vacuum in your ex's mind.
You did not force or beg to get this emotional vacuum, you used an emotional trigger to allow it.
You want your ex to know that they can't have you back with one simple phone call or a quick snap of the fingers. As soon as you say you're okay with the breakup you are planting a seed in their mind telling them you are doing fine and moving on with your life.
This creates space for them, not to worry, but to begin thinking about you. It will allow them to begin to reminisce and start to miss you. If they know they can have you any time they want, they are never going to miss you or what you had together.
This is just one of the reasons why the magic second chance letter works. But if you write this letter correctly there are many other emotional triggers that you can include to make her response even more powerful.
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