I read somewhere that there is such a big problem - the discrepancy between our expectations and reality. It was shown on the example of porn films, where everything is fun and beautiful, but in life everything is completely different.
Here I have the same thing. Going on the ski track, what do I imagine?
The girls are all such:
And men are like this:
And what in reality? The ridiculous shapeless figures, the gait of zombies and no aesthetics :)
And so on. And these are not specially selected photos - they are all like that!
Looking around, I began to suspect that I myself look like shame, even if I move faster than the absolute majority on our ski track. :)
What I have to do?
The recipe is probably simple. No need to watch TV, all evil from it :)
Good luck!