With every passing day, I increasingly come to the conclusion that the vast majority of people in the world walk around in a "trance" or daze, utterly unaware of what is going on around them-- or even right in front of their faces.
Maybe I'm a little strange, but whenever I walk into a house, or room, or shop, or restaurant I scan my surroundings and take a quick "inventory" of what's around me.
Evidently, that's not common behavior.
The Fine Art of Not Paying Attention
I have occasionally mentioned that my wife and I have a small art gallery/gift store, here in our town. It never ceases to amaze me how many people will stand at the desk where we make sales, with their face three feet from a large clear sign that reads "We Ship Nationwide!" and ask "Do you do ship?" Not to mention that we have "we ship" signs posted several places around the shop.
Sometimes people will pick up an item sitting right next to a sign with a description and a price and ask "how much is this?"
Now I can totally understand someone not paying attention when they are deep in thought or contemplation-- that's only natural. Happens to the best of us. However, if you are actively in the middle of doing a task... and you don't notice something very obvious that's directly related to the task? What's going on, then?
Many people "sleepwalk" through life...
My experiences at the gallery has made me more aware of just how many people truly do not bother to observe anything around them. Sometimes it almost sounds like they expect to have the simplest of things "spoon fed" to them, all the time.
Maybe that sounds a bit arrogant, but I struggle to find any explanation that makes more sense.
I deal with a whole different set of questions, as a seller on eBay.
There are certain things I ALWAYS make sure I include in my listings: The size of the item, the condition of the item and how much it will cost to ship. These are things I put in large text, front and center, for everyone to see. As a potential buyer, these are things I'd want easy answers to.
And yet, I still get a steady stream of emails, asking me things like "How big is it?" or "What will that cost to ship?"
Inevitably, the answers to 80% of the questions I get are right there, already.
Spiritual Laziness?
Sometimes I wonder if part of the issue is a sort of intellectual or spiritual "laziness," which seems rather pervasive in our modern world. Maybe you've encountered it, too. The moment a person has to "figure something out," they just ask a question that's already answered right in front of them, essentially having someone else "do the thinking FOR them," rather than take a moment to put two and two together, on their own.
Have we really grown that lazy? Or have we forgotten how to think and figure things out? Or is this part of a different "New World Order" in which everyone feels "entitled" to a life that lives itself and comes with an Easy Button?
I am really not trying to be judgmental here. This is more a case of pure curiosity... what's going on, inside people's heads? Why this lack of paying attention to the obvious? Why do people not read signs? Why do people not try to figure simple things out on their own?
What do YOU think? Leave a comment about your own experiences and start the conversation!
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