I really like the idea of polygamy. It takes a lot of trust, patience and pure love to be able to live it. This doesn't have to mean sex with lots of strangers, but it means to be able to give love to more than one person without reservations. Love has no borders.
Monogamy was invented in order to control people easier. In monogamous relationship a person regards the other as a possession. That is when an emotion of love becomes a great sin.
Egoism is a big part of our lives, always lurking in the shadows. Many times we confuse it for love. Once we start to see the other person as a property, it's not love anymore but ownership.
Jealousy is another strong emotion. I know this one very well as it is my strictest teacher. My emotion of jealousy was so strong that I couldn't live with it anymore, until one day I just decided I will açcept my jealousy and start sending light towards it.
Whenever I got jealous of someone, I closed my eyes and imagined that person in front of me and instead of telling them how much I'm hurt which was the reaction that I repeated for so many times, I tried to send good thoughts to that person.
I told them that he/she is a great person and that I send them my love energy.
It was hard at first, but all new habits in life have to be trained.
After a while I noticed that the people I was sending love to, changed their behavior and I could feel the difference in our energy field.
It became easy to connect with people that I was treating unfairly until then.
In that way I started to solve imaginary problems within me and I started to attract the energy field of love towards me.
I do this meditation whenever I feel my emotions are too strong to know what to do with them.
In that way we can improve other emotions too, like anger, fear, egoism, hate, love.
When we break down the wall that is keeping us from connecting with that emotion, life leads us twoard love and light.
The only way to get out a clear message, a real vision, that makes us feel calm and assured, is the way of pure love with no borders.