When I began participating in social media scenarios, for example in Facebook I got involved with answering many many comments in relation to different topics and dealing with people that was against my point of view or way of being and I spend many time answering comments and fighting with people and blocking people cause they come against you if you are not agree with their point of view.

Let´s not forget that all are just opinions and ideas programmed inside your head and no-one is real and created by you in self-honesty and people defends them with blood and sword and all ends to the principle of Humans against Humans. I learned a lot through the years in relation to being involved in useless conversations because I know the result of any kind of written war that occurs in the Internet nowadays.

You are just a person behind a computer

Also don´t forget that you are behind a screen and it is very easy to fight and say horrible things to others in that scenario, you are being protected by being anonimous and due to no-one knowing where you live, who you are, and where you come from you fill yourself with bravery and say and do things you wouldn´t do if you were infront of that people in the real life.
We are all *dishonest being behind a computer screen and pretending we are cool people and that our life is great in comparision of others lifes. Be honest with yourself cause it is true and if you are not dishonest you will stop feeding this nasty behaviours.

What if you show your real self in the social media?

I don´t care if you believe me or not but I have done it, I have showed my "nasty me" in the social media - specially on Facebook cause I was fed up in trying ot be nice to get followers and keep my friends on that platform and many poeple blocked me, but I didn´t posted horrible things or trolled people I was just showing the nasty human nature we all have and not posting "cute selfies" all around and"pretending" to be normal. I did a social criticism on social points based on common sense and straight words and people turned against me because they are used to read cute and nice things always and I was showing them just that...¡Human Nature!
Since then, I always say and I will keep saying that people doesn´t like to hear the truth and I am not saying that I know the absolute truth but the reality outhere shows you what you are accepting and allowing in yourself specially with feeding negative comments and showing the human you have inside.

I saw the Human inside my friends when I posted something that they didn´t liked seeing them transforming from a nice sheep into a enraged wolf. And I said them: Why you are so mad at my commento or opinion? - I mean, I was just sharing my opinion and that was all. Not getting mad, not having any resitance, just sharing my opinion on different topics as religion, entertainment, the world...etc.

I don´t understand why people deffends something that are just something you have learned but not lived

If you don´t live the information, how you know is the truth? Why you can defend something without questioning if it is something you have learned from tales and stories. That is just a BeLIEf System that´s all. When you live the information/opinion/idea you will know if it is true or not.

So, What I have encounter in those experiences where I got involved in comments and conversations with friends its a funny thing. I have seen steps that we follow in order to *win over another in a conversation and if you are not getting the results that you want you apply other tactics. At first you can have a calmed conversation but then you can see that one of you or both starts getting mad and instead of talking peacefully energy starts and people at the very very end...forgets about the topic and start talking about personal stuff and throwing that to your face ¡¡ that is the fun part!!

People throwing personal things about my life

Yes, that was the fun part indeed. Reading or hearing what my friends thought for real about me and my life when you get involved this conversations. It is very interesting what others can say to you when they are angry - There is where the *truth talks!! And so, I thought about making all my friends angry to know their real feelings and thoughts.

My best advice is to make all your family and friends angry or get them wasted and there you will see the REAL shit and you know, that is better than living in a lie seeing them with their nice and pre-produced faces talking to you and supressing all that hate. I prefer knowing people are honest with themselves at the point that they will stop talking to you than having them in your life just for appeareances.

I am a very honest person and If I like you, you will know, if not you will also know. My motto is that you cannot live in the middle of things - or you hate or you love. If you say you are only LOVE you are lying and supressing your dark side and you know what? The Dark side is cool to! EMBRACE IT

You may think I am crazy but in fact I have been discovering self-honesty and I embrace every part in me and I have stopped saying I am love or ** I am Light...I love all people** because no! I don´t. I mean, I recognize human nature and no-one is lovable. I prefer, instead of saying that "Love should exists"...that common sense should exist and people should respect others and do what is best for all as for themselves. That is like calling for action instead of preaching feelings.

We can change and be Better people if just we can accept our light and dark and love and hate and be Honest with all and say things as what they are but based in common sense and not in feelings that moves your guts and make you do random and stupid things as treating others bad or as this post was about hiding yourself behind your screen and writing horrible things to others or writing things that are not useful for anyone.

I will stop here. Thanks for reading and I guess no -one will read this so I will make the experiment of not sharing this post in Discord channels and leaving it here just as as a simple blog that I wrote in a boring morning and that´s all, If you have read this, Thank you and you can leave your comments and we can get to know each other and be friends, knowing that we can not get angry or take anything personal cause it´s a virtual space and we are just avatarspretending ot not but we are not real. If I see you in the street then yes we can take this to another state and so you can see I am not or I am what I share here, and so make a real opinion becuase you have LIVED ME