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Strictly for male readers, the content of this post might be considered offensive to ladies hence be advised to read at your discretion, Thanks!
"Never smell what you are not interested in eating"
This one of my late Momma's quote each time she is giving her son's relationship advice. As a widow my mom had assumed dual role of fatherhood coupled with motherhood, she had to because she had no girl child, we are all boys and so most issues of boys adolescents stage she knew of which i am never shy to talk to her even though my elder brothers are disgusted in this but sure could not stop it from been aired to my dear Momma!
Honestly, i have never been a "Taster", that is having a taste of everything in skirts around me. Not that the urge is never there but i have a subconscious fear of the bad lucks that comes with it because of my strong believe in several African Traditional Superstitious believes that had been echoed in several places i have been to. This gave me a high sense of cautiousness that not all ladies are touchable. Today i have summarized some of the superstitions/myth attached to ladies for any guy who care to know the dangers of sleeping around.
THE AFRICAN TABOO SURROUNDING SLEEPING WITH SEVERAL LADIES
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"BAD LUCK"
Popularly believed to be 85% true, sleeping around with multiple ladies brings bad luck. Many guys in the name of trying out their sexual prowess had ended up sleeping about over 50 or more ladies and the African Myth says; each lady a man sleeps with decreases the level of Goodwill and chances of success of such man/guy.
Sounds cheeky but practically many of us had seen it happen, the mechanisms causing this strange phenomenon remains unknown. When a guy could not control his sexual urges and always wants to satisfy it, he would definitely encounter a lady soaked in bad luck one time or many times. It is a believe through this African Superstition that ladies accumulates this ill will from spreading their legs for every man that comes their way and they are also generous by sharing this ill will to other men who comes their way!
"DEMONS"
Dozens of evil are out there and many took the form of women. In Africa, some of such evils are referred to as "Emere or Ogbanje" some are also referred to as "Marine Spirit". As weird as all this sounds, it seems true as this ladies comes in the prettiest forms any man could decline nor resist or perhaps look away from. All some of them wants from a man is their semen and that's it. Such a man, guy, boy might find it hard to conceive, be successful or even live long in life. Many men had been reported entrapped by this demons just from sleeping with a random girl and the stories of their lives had changed.
"THE SPELL OF HAVING SEX WITH A PREGNANT LADY"
It comes as no surprise that some people would do anything to get what they want, so are some ladies who could go any length to fulfill and obligation even if it requires a pregnant woman/girl sleeping with another man. Now this is one of the scariest superstition, a man who sleeps with such a lady knowingly and unknowingly is doomed and will automatically fall under a spell; this could be Been extremely broke or some nasty health issues.
This applies to the man or guy who sleeps with a lady carrying another man's baby, sounds dorky but we all must have read in some columns and blogs of real life accounts and how such men had been struggling in their lives. Myth or Superstition, who in his right mind would do such a thing, or how would a man know when the lady is desperate to get what he wants and hence not declaring she s carrying a baby?
MYTH/SUPERSTITION OR NOT
How this things came into play will remain unknown, and it is not a matter of whether you believe in it or not. But to any self conscious and responsible man, this shouldn't be a problem once the individual men remains satisfied with one partner, spouse, wife, Girlfriend or remain single.
Aside from the mentioned woes, too many ladies drains a man's account and resources, makes a man loose focus and most times once all a man's wealth is gone this ladies ditches such victims and hunt for another.
Be wise, stay away from the ones you can't settle for; never taste from many to avoid falling into this superstitious traps!
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