Failure is always something that has been so frowned upon. But it actually can be extremely beneficial. In this blog post, I'm going to talk about some of the things I learned while reading this book. While adding some of my own stuff ! In this book by Scott Adams

# Start Being Selfish With Your Life! # People frown upon the selfish outlook on life, And who could blame them. But the problem is, There are so many moments where we need to be selfish to grow and eventually give back. Being selfish allows for balance, Allowing yourself to take a relaxing bath. Or spending quality time for yourself. We often think we can't be selfish because someone will hate or judge us.

## People Have this Inability To Express Themselves ## It's essential to stop caring what others think of you; We put way too much weight on the opinion of others. Things are rarely as bad as the worst case scenario that we play out in our heads. People can also detect fakes from a mile away and will be drawn to your amazing and unique personality.

## Being honest about your abilities increases your value ## We are often dishonest about what we are capable of. And sometimes that's a ridiculous way to go about life. We need to see both sides of ourselves, And when we aren't honest about what we can do, It lowers our value. We need to be resilient to haters and be overall exciting people to get the success that we desire. *Having a consistent system allows us to get things done!*

- Tackling 3-4 items on your to-do list every day makes a more significant difference, And it's essential to have a priority system. - Surround yourself with people who share your goals. - Don't let haters or your insecurities take advantage of your short life. - Detach yourself from the outcome, Don't be too afraid of the results, Even if you fail. Be glad you at least tried. This book was fantastic; It's incredible that the qualities that many of us share, Are the same things that bring us down each day. We put too much weight on things that won't matter 5, 10 or 15 years from now. Instead, we need to focus on what matters if we want to get what we want in the long run. [You can get the book here](https://amzn.to/2L1JWcY) *Note: Amazon may give me a small commission if you were to purchase the book using my link. At no additional cost to you.* [**Check Out My Amazon Products!**](https://www.amazon.com/shop/kaylinart) ![Untitled design.png](https://steemitimages.com/DQmPtbc7TDHvmjNRN8krqCN5dfq1jUkqrjmmP2qqnwzwYWd/Untitled%20design.png)